It was another baseball weekend.
Two full days of tournament. On Saturday my son’s team played two games, on Sunday they played three. Since they kept playing, it also meant that they kept winning (losing two games means the team should start packing ‘coz they’re going home). They could have reached and won the championship game if only the last two teams they played against were not that good. But well, all the teams played to win. Our team came in third. Not bad for a new team.
To say that it was an exhausting weekend would be an understatement. The long day, the heat, the waiting in between games truly sucked the energy out of me. At some point during the day, I was already starting to imagine what my alternate self in my alternate universe would have been doing on that weekend. Probably Christmas shopping. Alternate SGM was joyously strolling at the airconditioned mall, shopping for Christmas gifts, looking so pristine while sipping her favorite iced mocha. The real ME on the other hand, spent the two days under the sun and the heat and the occasional drizzle. With sand and soil on my shoes and my pants. I was the perfect poster girl for the Sahara desert.
When we got back home Sunday evening, I was just so tired. Dead tired.
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Enough of the whining, though, because I know that despite the heat and the exhaustion, it was a good weekend for all of us baseball parents who were there to watch and cheer for our boys. We had food, we had drinks. And do you know of people who are very gifted at entertaining others? Well, we had those, too. Ergo, we had laughter. Lots and lots of laughter.
It is really nice when parents get together for a certain goal. Ours was to extend whatever support our kids needed… not only to win the games, but for them to learn from the actual experience, as well. So whether they win or lose, our prayer was that they take something valuable home with them.
It is not always just about the skills that the child develops when he does sports. It is also about the values that he learns. The life lessons that he will bring with him as he gets older. It is also about the memories that these children build individually and even as a team.
And to be part of those memory-building moments… isn’t that what parenting is about?
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next blog: Parenting from the Other Side… (The kind of parent you wouldn’t want to be). Watch out for it. I still have to collect my thoughts. As I said, I was dead tired over the weekend, I haven’t really recovered yet.
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